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Post by minjaeyang on May 2, 2013 4:17:02 GMT -5
I would accept the fact that it is unattainable and move on. I think there would be a very good reason why a love is impossible to get. So instead of trying so hard, I think I would try to forget and move on with my life.
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Post by joannekim on May 4, 2013 2:05:18 GMT -5
I would not be so brave to accept my feeling and love someone that I should not be loving. I would not want to deal with hardships that would result from unattainable love. To me, love should not be so painful. I would try to ignore the feeling and move on. Perhaps it would be sad and hard to forget, but I would go on looking for a better person.
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Post by joon on May 13, 2013 23:55:32 GMT -5
I think you would never know what you would do unless you actually experience it. Depending on the situation, there may be times when it's not that bad for you to be brave and go for it, but there will be times when you should not go for it and avoid your feelings. But one thing for sure is that if the person I loved already belonged to a family and they were happy, then I wouldn't follow my feelings because that's not right.
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Post by jessicak016 on May 14, 2013 4:40:41 GMT -5
If I ever loved someone and I know that it is unattainable love, I would just let go of it and not think about that person. It takes a lot of risk and bravery to continue to love that person even though you know that you might never get what you want. It is hard to let go of it and forget about it but it is way easier in the long run than dealing with the hardships from continuing loving that person.
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Post by kiranshoaib on May 15, 2013 19:10:12 GMT -5
Yeah, me too. I don't think ill try to get someone whom i know for sure is for certain reasons can't be with me. I know it will be super depressing and hard for me but some things happen for better
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Post by michellelee on May 19, 2013 2:52:23 GMT -5
I think I would just accept the fact that it is attainable and try to hold myself back from expressing those feelings.
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Post by hannahs on May 23, 2013 6:45:20 GMT -5
I would like to say that I would still go for the guy but I think I would just try to ignore my feelings and keep telling myself that I don't really like him. I would try to deceive myself into thinking that I don't really love the person.
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Post by sarahlee2 on May 23, 2013 7:26:12 GMT -5
I think it depends on the situation. I think if it was someone I really couldn't have, I think I wouldn't go for it. I would just try to move on and forget about it. After awhile, I would be able to forget it completely especially if I didn't see them. But I think if it was someone that I couldn't have because I know they wouldn't like me, I think I would go for it, at least for a little bit.
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Post by yerin0727 on May 23, 2013 23:22:35 GMT -5
If I was in the situation, I would probably go for it. If I try to ignore my feelings just because people think it is an unattainable love, I would probably end up regretting. I would hate to regret things later on that cannot be solved after anyways. It may hurt to go on and try to go for it, but at least I would not regret after since I tried my best .
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Post by davidh on May 25, 2013 0:19:25 GMT -5
It never happen to me but If I really find a person that I don't want to miss, I would definitely not let her go. It's matter of my happiness and very important factor. I don't really want to regret it for the rest of my life. But if she doesn't like me just the way I'm, I would resolutely give up and let her go
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Post by junaen0416 on May 31, 2013 8:06:26 GMT -5
I used to like this girl but then I realized that its unattainable since the things we shared weren't common. So, I just had to move on and learn the fact that its Okay and there will be plenty of opportunities.
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Post by sarahlee4 on Jun 1, 2013 3:19:20 GMT -5
I think I would just go for it. I think there is a reason to those strong feelings you have towards that person and if the feelings are there, that person is worth a shot. Who knows, maybe that person feels the same way about you but you just wouldnt know until you try right?
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