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Post by sarahlee2 on Sept 16, 2012 5:05:37 GMT -5
I also think that soul mates do exist. I think they are people that you can want to stay with forever no matter what happens. I feel like when you find your soulmate you'll know that they are your soulmate. But as other people said, I think that they are really hard to find. There are so many people in this world that could be your soulmate. But I think that in yout life you'll meet your soulmate someday.
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Post by sojounggg on Sept 16, 2012 6:17:41 GMT -5
i think there is a chosen soul mate. have you guys ever watched 300days of summer? the female main character says 'if i was there 5 minuates early or 5 minuates later i would not have been able to meet him. but i was there...........' it means the time and the place and the situation provided the couple to meet.
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Post by seongrae on Sept 16, 2012 6:26:36 GMT -5
I don¡¯t agree that soul mate exists. As soul mates aren¡¯t found at the first time as one met. I think it is hard to distinguish that person is my soul mates or not, so it is hard to believe that soul mates exist. Also, there might be people who is similar to a person who I thought was my soul mates. In addition, even though there is soul mates, there is no way I could know she is my soul mates. Therefore, I don¡¯t believe soul mate exists as nobody knows who their soul mate is.
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Post by yerin0727 on Sept 16, 2012 6:46:02 GMT -5
I also think that true love does exist. Some people may think that there is no such thing as true love but I think that exists somewhere and that at some point, we will all be able to meet our true love. I think that by breaking up in relationships, we are walking on our path toward meeting our true love someday.
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Post by sarahlee4 on Sept 16, 2012 6:53:24 GMT -5
For me, I think that soul mates do exist. Obviously, they dont just pop out of no where and you fall in love in a blink of an eye, but like many of you said, love grows. I don't believe in love at first sight. I think people mix up lust at first sight with love at first sight. A person can gravitate towards liking someone as soon as they see them, but its not love because they dont even know much about the other person, and sometimes not even their names. I think people are always attracted to a person by their outer appearance first before they learn to actually love the person for who they are. Maybe the person starts liking the person for their outside character. Love definitely grows and when a couple is together for sometime and they have been together through think and thin and their feelings toward each other after many many years is the same as their feelings toward each other when they first started going out, then thats a soul mate.
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Post by hanbikang on Sept 16, 2012 8:43:17 GMT -5
I guess Soul-mate does exsist however it isn't something you wait for. It is something that you have to spend time and make the true love. I personally think that everyone can do love but not find the true love. Because true love is something that both have to respect a lot. True love is something that you have to make not that you gain for free. Eventhough nothing is for free but true love is hard to gain.
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Post by alexkoo on Sept 16, 2012 8:56:11 GMT -5
I am not so sure if soul mate exist or not but I think the concept of soul mate sounds useless to be now. I believe that there might be a "true Love". However, most of "true love" are one sided. It is impossible for both men and women to love each other equally. One of them will eventually like the other more. Person who is being loved keeps their relationship just because they are happy that someone cares about them. I think people love each other for reason. They start to love someone because he or she has something that they want.
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Post by michellelee on Sept 16, 2012 10:12:51 GMT -5
I believe soul mates do exist. However, like you said it is very difficult to find out who it is. Who you might think is your soul mate might not be one.
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Post by minchoi0923 on Sept 17, 2012 6:11:21 GMT -5
I do think that there is a soul mate somewhere in this world. It's just that it's really hard to find a soul mate who perfectly satisfies both of the man and woman. Also, even if someone does find a soulmate, the soulmate will turn into nobody if both man and woman don't try to make it work. They need to learn how to respect each other, how to communicate, and other stuff in order to become a perfect soulmate. I see this with my parents; They constantly argue but they still figure out a way to corporate their different opinion and become even closer. So I think there is a soulmate but it depends on US whether it will turn out well or not.
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Post by jessicak016 on Sept 21, 2012 20:17:02 GMT -5
I do not think that soul mates exist. If I have to believe in soul mates, then I would have to search for him, not knowing whether that person, whom I meet, is really my soul mate or not. And if something bad happens during my relationship to that particular person, I would think "Oh he is not the one that I am looking for" and break up with him. Then I would have to search for him again. That's why I do not believe love is specifically directed to a particular person.
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Post by minjaeyang on Sept 21, 2012 21:44:40 GMT -5
I also think that soulmate exist. However, we can not say somebody is our soulmate before we even meet and have a relationship with them. As two people develop deep understanding and love for each other, they gradually become each other's soulmate.
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Post by Alam10kkfs on Sept 22, 2012 18:33:50 GMT -5
Soul-mate is hard to find. you've got to dig it deep or you cant find it. When the person you love starts getting annoying and you two have a fight but sooner or later you two apologize each other and the situation normally back as it used to be, thats the real soul-mate right there~
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Post by hafizh on Sept 23, 2012 4:33:43 GMT -5
well yea i believe it too. every people have their own soulmate, or their true love. you may not find it now, but im pretty sure that God already planned everything for us. we might made mistake by thinking someone was the right one for us, but never regret with any decision that you made, and keep believing that the right one is waiting for you somewhere in future
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Post by tha0ism on Sept 24, 2012 21:10:24 GMT -5
I think soul mate does exist. I mean, I want to believe that my soul mate exist somewhere in this world. I'm still waiting for my Prince Charming to come pick me up out of three billion girls on his white horse ♥ Okay, that was only in my DREAM. The reality is all about timing. We just get married or spend our life with someone who happened to be there at the right time.
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Post by sageda on Sept 28, 2012 20:00:45 GMT -5
I do believe in soul mates. But I don't think there's a soul mate already picked for you. I think you build that up together. There's the initial attraction and after that you have to work on the relationship. I don't believe in love at first sight because that's just infatuation.
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