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Revenge
Jan 27, 2013 7:19:03 GMT -5
Post by delmanykkfs on Jan 27, 2013 7:19:03 GMT -5
Is revenge a good way to solve problems?? For revenge is a confession of pain, after you solve your revenge problem it feels like you just got rid of other obstacle of life and I’m not trying give a bad example but a little of pay back some times is good.
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Revenge
Jan 27, 2013 7:52:54 GMT -5
Post by jessicashim2013 on Jan 27, 2013 7:52:54 GMT -5
The answer to this question can differ depending on our beliefs, like religion. Although the religion I believe in says not to revenge, I think revenge is appropriate some times. Its hard to understand what you never experienced. After you go through it, you feel the pain. Revenge would teach the person what they have done.
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Revenge
Jan 27, 2013 7:58:24 GMT -5
Post by cathysjun on Jan 27, 2013 7:58:24 GMT -5
I think it depends on the situation. I don't believe that revenge is always bad. I think sometimes it is okay. But usually I think it is not a good solution to solve problems because revenge may make someone else seek revenge. It may make the situation worse.
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Revenge
Jan 27, 2013 8:45:01 GMT -5
Post by RegXD on Jan 27, 2013 8:45:01 GMT -5
Revenge is an interesting word, because its unique to use it on other people. And i think that Hamlet should take revenge for his dead father. Because if my parents are murdered i would definitely take revenge on whoever killed them. And i think its necessary for Hamlet to do so.
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Revenge
Jan 27, 2013 9:41:03 GMT -5
Post by hannahs on Jan 27, 2013 9:41:03 GMT -5
I don't think revenge is a good way to solve problems. I feel like when you take revenge, it will just make a problem bigger and never ending since the person that you took revenge on will try to get revenge on you back and so forth. In the end, the two people that participated in this kind of fight probably won't even remember the start of the conflict because the problem is way worse than it started off with. Also, people take revenge because they think it'll help them feel better but I think when you take revenge and succeed in it, you won't find satisfaction in it. It might just make you feel empty inside.
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Revenge
Jan 30, 2013 7:18:59 GMT -5
Post by sujeonggg on Jan 30, 2013 7:18:59 GMT -5
I have a similar opinion as hannah. I don't think revenge is a good way to solve problems. I belive revenge creates more and more problems subsequently, and there is no end to that fight. If every person just takes revenge on people all the time, there might be all the tragedies in this world at the end.
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Revenge
Jan 31, 2013 4:18:49 GMT -5
Post by minjaeyang on Jan 31, 2013 4:18:49 GMT -5
I think revenge is only good in certain cases. When a person does something wrong, and he does not know that it is wrong, revenge is necessary. However, when a peroson knows he did something wrong and apologizes, revenge is foolish. Only when a person has bad intentions and does not fix them, should they be paid back for. For these reasons, I think revenge is okay depending on the case.
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Revenge
Jan 31, 2013 23:08:08 GMT -5
Post by edward08 on Jan 31, 2013 23:08:08 GMT -5
Well i do agree that revenge is good in a certain ti me, but i dont think that it should be done seriously or numerously. Revenge can leade to more problems such as death. Eventhough you do a revenge you dont feel comforted. Talking it out and tring to assimilate with the situation would probably help more
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Revenge
Feb 2, 2013 10:48:23 GMT -5
Post by michellelee on Feb 2, 2013 10:48:23 GMT -5
I think revenge is okay sometimes. But it is not the best solution because it can bring a very bad consequence. For example, revenge can leave a bad reputation or make you regretful. Therefore it will be better to seek other solutions.
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Revenge
Feb 2, 2013 20:29:24 GMT -5
Post by anica on Feb 2, 2013 20:29:24 GMT -5
I personally think that getting revenge to solve your personal problems can benefit you to a certain extent. Now, then again, it can also go against your morals. For example, if there were two boys in a fight, one might punch you in the face, and you might be thinking, should I hit back or not? You have two options: to hit back or not. But revenge means hitting back. However, you know that hitting isn't a good thing.
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Post by sageda on Feb 3, 2013 2:08:27 GMT -5
I think the best revenge is to show the other person that they don't phase you. Revenge means that you make that person a substantial part of your life and revolve your life around them. That's counterproductive in most cases. The best thing would be to just forgive them (or not) and just move on with your life. I don't think revenge does anybody any good. It just brings you down to that person's level.
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Post by ginayang on Feb 3, 2013 2:44:49 GMT -5
Revenge is never the answer to solving problems because it will just create more problems. When someone does something wrong to me, I stay calm and never lose my temper. This is beause I know arguing or fighting won't lead to anything good. And I try to be nice to my enemies because I can't stand living with a hateful heart. It makes me too stressed out. Thus, I just smile and move on. So one of the mottos I live by is forgive and forget.
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Post by franicaza95 on Feb 3, 2013 5:30:28 GMT -5
i think you are totally right, some times you do have that feeling that taking revenge for someone will make you feel better. i also think that if you do take revenge on someone, to the point of killing, it would just put you in the same position and that bad person. At the end you will still have that pain and sorrow of someones death.
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Post by Alam10kkfs on Feb 3, 2013 9:19:19 GMT -5
I think it depends on the situation and how you do it. If someone was murdering the one you love right upon your eyes, well the best way to revenge is knock him down, no matter how big the guy is. Revenge is not always the best way to payback something but if you need it, why not~
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Post by juliekim on Feb 3, 2013 9:28:22 GMT -5
Revenge isn't a good way to solve problems. It'll only make the situation worse because that person that you took revenge on is going to want to take revenge against you and the cycle goes on and on. It's like Taken 2, where the Albanian guy's family wants to take revenge on Liam Neeson and kidnaps him and his wife. Revenge doesn't lead to anything good. In the movie, Liam Neeson ends up killing the dad too. What's the good in having such bad feelings control your life?
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