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Revenge
Feb 3, 2013 10:31:04 GMT -5
Post by joannekim on Feb 3, 2013 10:31:04 GMT -5
Revenge is not a good way to solve a problem...it can worsen the problem if your opponent revenges back. Revenge just prevents you from moving on from the obstacle. I also feel that taking a revenge makes you same kind of person as your enemy. There is no difference between me and my opponent if we think in same way and do the same bad thing. I think doing revenge would make me feel trapped by the past. I would get over bad feeling and forget about my past hardship and enemy.
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Post by jessicak016 on Feb 8, 2013 2:29:32 GMT -5
I think that it depends on the situation. However, most of the time, getting revenge does not mean you have solved the problem with that person you took revenge on. It could make the problem worser since that person would also want to take revenge on you. But I agree with you that revenge would ease your anger at that person even though it does not really solve the problem. And also when you are going through bad things because of someone and you get mad, it does not really matter whether revenge is good or not but you really want to do revenge.
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cesar
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Revenge
Feb 10, 2013 8:54:37 GMT -5
Post by cesar on Feb 10, 2013 8:54:37 GMT -5
Like Alam said, revenge can be good or bad depending on the situation. There's a lot of cases where revenge can be something that can bring nothing good in the end but more death or violence. Sometime revenge is needed to solve some situations; there will be situations in life were you are left with little to no choice ( very presumptuously speaking), and revenge will be the only choice you have to continue living your life.
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Revenge
Feb 11, 2013 8:22:56 GMT -5
Post by seongrae on Feb 11, 2013 8:22:56 GMT -5
To revenge someone is depended on one’s personality. If one is timid and not very active, then one can not revenge or afraid to revenge someone. However if one is very active and short tempered, then one can revenge someone very easily. It is like the mindfulness we learned in homeroom time. There were some people who did not have a way to stop their anger but some did. For example, counting to ten to lower one’s anger.
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Revenge
Feb 22, 2013 8:46:27 GMT -5
Post by hanbikang on Feb 22, 2013 8:46:27 GMT -5
Revenge is a good way to solve problems. What i think is it depends on how you think and how big the reason is. Let say when somebody has killed your father you can't just leave him in jail i mean i can't personally do it. If it is something else then i would say no.
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Revenge
Feb 22, 2013 8:48:40 GMT -5
Post by davidh on Feb 22, 2013 8:48:40 GMT -5
I think it depends on people's opinion. What I think about this is that Some people think revenge is the only way to satisfy their want. I think revenge is the only way to make people happy. It's morally not right but I'm satisfied with it.
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Post by kiranshoaib on Mar 2, 2013 8:24:31 GMT -5
Revenge does brings you satisfaction and makes you feel like your pain is over or the painful times that you had to go through due to that person are finally paid back. However, i dont think revenge is the "good" way of solving your problems. If you make the other person suffer just the way you had to, because of something that he/she did to you, than there wont be any difference between you and him/her. You will be considered just as horrible as you used to consider that person to be and violence or evilness would continue. Just wait for the bad karma to happen to that person
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sang
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Revenge
Mar 2, 2013 12:08:09 GMT -5
Post by sang on Mar 2, 2013 12:08:09 GMT -5
Like how two kids would try to hit themselves to make things 'even,' I think that it isn't such a bright idea to go for revenge. So many Wars throughout history occurred for the sake of revenge. Some aspects of WW2, and other wars have the element of revenge inside them. From this, we can conclude that, though revenge might seem like the best temporary solution, in the long run, it's not the best.
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Post by sarahlee2 on Mar 8, 2013 0:13:50 GMT -5
I think revenge really isn't a good way to solve problems but I think it helps some people feel better. The revenge that people try to take doesn't always end up well for that person as well sometimes though. It can lead to doing really stupid stuff that later you will eventually regret.
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Revenge
Mar 14, 2013 2:07:19 GMT -5
Post by julielu on Mar 14, 2013 2:07:19 GMT -5
hello
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Revenge
Mar 17, 2013 9:13:41 GMT -5
Post by jinwooprk on Mar 17, 2013 9:13:41 GMT -5
It seems to me that revenge is an ultimate form of anger, pain or hatred. people thinks that by taking a revenge you can relieve that pain or anger inside you, however, I don't think anger or hatred inside you go away right away by taking a revenge because revenge does not actually change the reality. For example, if you revenge on a person that murdered your parents by murdering them back, it still does not change the fact that your parents are murdered and it also makes the situation worse.
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Revenge
Mar 17, 2013 10:04:21 GMT -5
Post by sojounggg on Mar 17, 2013 10:04:21 GMT -5
revenge is not a good way to solve a problem if i revenge for my feeling that is just like an animal who cannot control feeling also other people will revenge back to me
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Post by junaen0416 on Apr 3, 2013 8:22:43 GMT -5
No, I don't think revenge is the best solution for a problem. It makes matters worse and will never stop. It's more of an ongoing process. this can referred to the saying, you hit me, I hit you twice and so on.
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Revenge
Apr 11, 2013 9:21:38 GMT -5
Post by tha0ism on Apr 11, 2013 9:21:38 GMT -5
well, i think it actually all depend on the cultures, but I don't think revenge is a good way to solve problems. An eye for an eye isnt a answer to anything. When you take a revenge, it will make a problem more complicated and never ending since the person that you took revenge on will try to get revenge on you. It will be back and forth and in the end, the two people that were involved in the situation probably won't even remember the start of the conflict because the problem is way worse than when it started off.
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