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Post by sageda on Apr 21, 2013 2:12:16 GMT -5
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Post by ginayang on Apr 21, 2013 3:09:53 GMT -5
Yeah, I agree that girls are less attracted to nice guys like Federigo. Girls are more attracted to guys who are nonchalant. Federigo gave everything up for Monna. He never gave a cold shoulder to her. So of course she felt no interest in him. He has no charima.
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Post by franicaza95 on Apr 21, 2013 10:25:03 GMT -5
to be honest that post was kinda confusing casue it to me it just felt like it was a guy who had a bad expericnes with girls and thinks he knows all about them. maybe im wrong. anyways back to the topic, i think friendzone is how the word defines it which is someone who is considered to be no more than a friend! therefore that person will have limits.
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Post by sojounggg on Apr 21, 2013 16:22:06 GMT -5
in ;my opinion wi want to say,
friend zone is the person who can be best friend but not more than that
everyone tried to keep some of their friends in friend zone because they have a feeling that they should not go over that
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Post by alexkoo on Apr 22, 2013 7:49:26 GMT -5
As we can know just by looking at the word "FriendZone", it is person who can only be considered as a friend. I think we use this word to another gender all the time. If man and woman are to close to each other and too honest to each other they can only be friends. It is so sad word to hear because so many guys try to get out of FriendZone.
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Post by joannekim on Apr 27, 2013 10:18:29 GMT -5
I also agree with Franny about the posting; it seemed like the guy had some bad experience about girls and is generalizing about girls and friendzone. Friendzone is where person of another gender is just your friend and no more than that. I think anyone can end up just being a friend or having closer relationship.
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Post by juliekim on Apr 28, 2013 8:20:34 GMT -5
Uhh I didn't really get that blog post. Is that just a guy ranting about friendzone? I don't think friendzone is the right word to describe Federigo's relationship with Monna. She clearly didn't find him attractive both as a lover and as a friend. I guess that would be less brutal than friendzone-ing him. I think it's pretty legit for a girl to have friendzoned guys around them. I wouldn't know how guys felt about it though.
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Post by sang on Apr 28, 2013 9:42:45 GMT -5
Yeah, I agree with Julie about Federigo. I think that he wasn't actually friendzoned, but that he was just plain not-liked by Monna. We talked about friendzone because somebody thought that he was friendzoned in class. BUt anyways, I think that there indeed exists a friend-zone. Because for one thing, it's impossible to make it clear to the opposite gender in the first place that you'd like to be something more than just a friend. Your actions cause the person to judge whether that person is looking for something more or just a friend. And depending on that person's personality, I think that it is determined. So, I want to make clear that friendzone does indeed exist.
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Post by jessicashim2013 on Apr 30, 2013 12:54:03 GMT -5
Yeah, I also think that Monna didn't put Federigo in her friendzone. She was just not interested in him until she had to ask help for her son. The post was confusing but I think it meant that for a guy to be attractive, they shouldn't be too nice. I disagree. In general, we feel attractive to good looking people especially if we do not know anything about them; appearance is important. But the appearance isn't everything. For me, I see it possible to like a guy who I didn't really like in the first time but since he tried so hard, I would be impressed and start to like him. It depends..
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Post by seongrae on May 6, 2013 4:11:39 GMT -5
I think Federico was not even in the friend zone to Mona. Mona didn't cared about Fedrigo that even though he used his money to her, she ignored. If Mona and he was in the friendzone, Mona might have talked about their relationship and live as friend. Maybe they might marry even though two women and men was in friendzone. However, definitely Fedrigo was not on the friend zone.
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Post by cathysjun on May 13, 2013 19:01:48 GMT -5
I agree with Seongrae. Fedrigo wasn't even in Mona's friendzone because she didn't really like Fedrigo. I think the friendzone is when you think of a person of the opposite sex nothing more than a good friend.
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Post by joon on May 14, 2013 0:22:04 GMT -5
I agrre with everyone. Federigo wasn't friendzoned in the first place, because he was never friends with Mona. However, the term "friend-zoned" is very similar to the idea of "courtly-love" since they both deal with one person who loves someone but can never get the love back. I think that friend zoning is something that happens for both guys and girls. There are lots of times when you are good friends with the other sex, but you just don't see him/her as a lover.
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Post by jessicak016 on May 14, 2013 4:11:02 GMT -5
I also don't think that Federigo was in the friendzone for Monna Giovanna. She did not think of him neither as a friend nor as a lover. It is not like as if Monna would have cried on his shoulder if she had a bad time. Federigo was doing everything for her and Monna was just taking things from him because he provided those things to her for free. Because Monna did not think of him as a friend, she did not really like going to his house in the country and asking for the falcon.
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Post by kiranshoaib on May 18, 2013 12:11:08 GMT -5
Yea i would agree with most of you guys about friendzone not really relating to federgo's relationship with Moona. Friendzoning someone is basically is a different scenario, as in having some guy being your friend for a long time and than eventually getting to hear that he had more feelings for you than just being your friend or may be you falling for him while him thinking of you as just a best friend. Whereas, Federigo was never liked by Moona, to Moona he was always sort of a stranger, she never even thought to consider him as a friend.
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Post by michellelee on May 19, 2013 2:29:29 GMT -5
I also think that Monna put Federigo outside of friendzone meaning he was not even in her friendzone. She did not seem to consider Federigo as her friend but just a man who she did not want to deal with. So that's why at first she did not want to visit Federigo for the falcon.
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