joon
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Post by joon on Sept 22, 2012 21:55:08 GMT -5
Rape is honestly too sensitive of a topic for me to get into, but I do believe that men are obviously at fault. However, there are female seducers (hustlers haha) who toy with guys and have fun by messing with them. The terms "free dinner" or "boy-toy" weren't created for nothing, haha. The same goes for guys too. I think that there are people, either man or woman, who seduce people and manipulate them for their own good.
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Post by cathysjun on Sept 22, 2012 22:33:03 GMT -5
There are some women seducers. However I don't think it is always the women's fault when it comes to rape. There are men who rape 7 year olds. How could a 7 year old possibly seduce a fully grown up man? She wouldn't even know what sex is. Of course wearing revealing clothes could sduce men. However men should also know how to refrain themselves. Also women should not wear clothes that are too revealing, although that is not always the case. Since rape still exists in places where women wear hijabs and reveal basically no skin at all. Overall I personally think that it is mostly the men's fault but sometimes women do play a part too. I also think that there are women seducers but not every single women is a seducer.
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Post by hanbikang on Sept 22, 2012 23:09:35 GMT -5
Its is men's fault that they committed a crime and it is their fault that they couldnt control themselves. Women have their freedom to wear what they want but should control the limit of wearing what they do. However i personally think it is not the women's fault. It is just an excuse of what the men's are saying. But doesn't mean every guys are like that so i wish that girls don't have the thought that guys are disgusting and are control less of tempation.
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anica
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Post by anica on Sept 23, 2012 2:55:27 GMT -5
Women tempting men with revealing clothes.. hmmm yea I wonder if that's even an excuse or justified response to committing a crime of rape.
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Post by julielu on Sept 23, 2012 4:35:43 GMT -5
I think the excuse doesn't make sense. Women like bags but they don't snatch. If men like women, they shouldn't force women, either. Self-control is within human natural.
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Post by jinwooprk on Sept 23, 2012 6:52:15 GMT -5
I agree with Gina that men of these days in Korea should really try to control their sexual desires. Those kind of excuses that woman are seducers are just ridiculous. THose kind of excuses just makes woman's to view men as those that cannot control themselves. However, I agree with Cezar that there are those people who are egocentric and thus have very selfish point of view. It would be best acknowledge that there are those messed up people and it would be better to be careful as possible.
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Post by elijahlee on Sept 23, 2012 7:51:14 GMT -5
haha, I find this argument very interesting, and VERY controversial. Did you guys know that at one point and time, a girl was considered a "whore" for showing them knees? We have come a long way... but, yes i think that women can tempt men with clothing, just like men can tempt women. i'm pretty sure some hot hunk of a man could tempt a woman... 0.o
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Post by franicaza95 on Sept 30, 2012 5:17:18 GMT -5
I think that both men and women have a fault in this situation but i also believe that men have more and should have more control of what they do. I mean yes men do get tempted but yes like gina said there is something called looking away beofre you do something stupid. Talking about rape is going a little too far but they should know that first of all its just wrong.
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Post by sageda on Oct 6, 2012 23:11:22 GMT -5
I don't think women tempt men but men are tempted by them regardless. Women honestly can do without a man or sex but a man can't. It's not the matter of who's tempting who. It's that men are tempted when there is nothing to be tempted by. It's ridiculous to blame it on the woman. But then again, we don't live in a perfect society. Girls, you can't really go around wearing booty shorts and not expect guys to look at you but it's still not an excuse for guys to harass women.
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kevin
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Post by kevin on Oct 13, 2012 20:32:18 GMT -5
yea women tempt men. but men are dumb. they get tempted easily and yea they should definitely control themselves. their excuse for raping is just bs and its their fault to just look at women and think of doing it. no more than animals. women can wear whatever they want men should be like men like human
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Post by sammy576 on Oct 24, 2012 7:49:14 GMT -5
Honestly I think men tempt women just as much women tempt men. Although throughout literature and history, it is portrayed as the woman being the seducer, It is clear especially in today's society that man seduce women. I really don't think there is anything wrong with the seducer, but in the seduced. When i say this, I mean that men just seem to be much easier to seduce than it is for men to seduce women so I think this is the reason why women are accused as seducers.
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Post by tha0ism on Oct 28, 2012 10:25:55 GMT -5
Outfit and clothes are fashion, and fashion is art. Guys cant say its girls fault how we show our body line or what so ever. Those stupid excuses are ridiculous. Arent smart enough to think about whats right or wrong? Why did go gave us a complicated nerve system for? TO BE ABLE TO THINK. Seriously, i hear this argument a lot of time in a lot of place this just isnt right thing to say.
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