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Post by kiranshoaib on Oct 16, 2012 23:05:18 GMT -5
It depends on different scenarios as well. If i would have been making that man feeling that i really respect his feelings for me and if we would have been friends for a long time, than i would probably not leave him just for a man who comes back to me after 8 years and says that he loves me. But if i would have had simply rejected the man from the beginning, the one who cares about me, and given him an exact response that "you should find someone else, I'm not your girlfriend". And if my lost love comes back again after 8 years than i would probably love to get back to him.
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Post by sujeonggg on Oct 17, 2012 21:00:51 GMT -5
I would rather live alone. I don't want both guys. Eventhough I love this one guy, I wouldn't forget about the fact that he has betrayed me once. And he possibly can betray me again. So I don't want this guy. But the other guy, even though he truly cares about me and has a bright future, I still don`t love him. Then what's the point of this? I don't want to live with the person I don't love. So.. I would rather not choose one.
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Post by seongrae on Oct 18, 2012 10:09:13 GMT -5
I might choose a woman who makes me feel in love because even though woman has bright future and cares about me, it will end as a sad ending. If I cannot feel in love, than eventually even one cares the other, it will break. So, I will choose a woman who makes me feel in love and make a bright future because we can make or shape our own future in any time.
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Post by edward08 on Oct 18, 2012 23:19:27 GMT -5
This is just a stroy in which in reality none of this really happens. WhAt everyone say we should marry someone who we love sincerly and would willing to go through hard times together but in reality people tend to look up to people who are more succesful and has a better spec. It is very sad that the world is like his but, its reality
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Post by stormy44 on Oct 19, 2012 5:24:55 GMT -5
I think I would go for the first guy. If I picked a guy who could provide everything, I might look happy on the outside, but I would always think of the guy I truly loved. Even if picking the guy I love means that I might have to go through a lot of hardships, having my loved one beside me is the most important thing afterall.
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Post by juliekim on Oct 19, 2012 7:32:23 GMT -5
I would choose the guy that love me, whether or not he has a bright future or career. It's the guy that I'm going to spend the rest of my life with, so I gotta be wise with who I choose. And I'm definitely not going to go for a guy who just thinks me as a temporary girlfriend thing. It's better if he has a good career, but that's not the reason why I would go for that guy. I think I would feel anxious with the other guy because I'd be scared that he would break my heart another time. You never know he might do the same exact things, ask for forgiveness, and come back again. And then do the same things again. I don't want a guy like that.
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Post by RegXD on Oct 19, 2012 20:38:58 GMT -5
in a guy views i would choose the girl that actually cares about me. because there's no point in loving the girl where she doesn't care about you. but its different from the girl where she actually cared about and thats where love truly is to my opinion.
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Post by Alam10kkfs on Oct 20, 2012 6:34:10 GMT -5
once again, this is a hard choice. if you dont understand each other and dont need each other, your love will be temporary. theres no right or wrong answer here so it depends on people's opinion, and people have a different idea about what love is.
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Post by cathysjun on Oct 20, 2012 7:15:25 GMT -5
I think I would go for the guy I love. It is true that if I go for the guy with a good career, I would live comfortably for the rest of my life. But I don't think I would feel as happy as I am with the guy who I love. It does sound unrealistic but I think if you really love somebody it doesn't really matter whether you are poor or not. I think I will be happy just being able to be with the guy I love. So I think I will go for the guy I love.
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Post by davidh on Oct 20, 2012 19:17:24 GMT -5
For me, I would choose a girl who have lots of money because loving someone is good but it will not make you happy if you don't have money... It's just not going to work... If I choose to be with someone I love instead of a girl who have money and loves me, I would be happy for a few years or few month. But being poor will not save her.
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Post by sojounggg on Oct 21, 2012 2:37:39 GMT -5
i would like to choose a guy who has a bright future and good care about me.
not like the other guy i can be sure that this guy not leaving me alone and take a good responsibility.
the other guy the one who i loved 8 years will make the mistake that he alreahd made in the past.
i justdo not want to repeat the past.
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Post by tha0ism on Oct 28, 2012 9:51:13 GMT -5
Firstable, it is like impossible for me to go back with someone who already broke my heart becuase he didnt desirve me from first place. But, i would say if i was a teenager, i will go for the guy i love. If i was an adult, i will go for a guy who has future. We cant feed ourselves with love. We need money to my food and i don't even know if i can love a guy who cant even afford his lover what she want. Of course i would be working too but, that doesnt mean that i will work my butt off and stay with a guy who only makes half of my income
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Post by sageda on Nov 3, 2012 8:45:25 GMT -5
In the girl's case, she wasn't in love with her ex. She was in love with the idea of him so in her case it would be foolish. But if I really was in love with my ex and wasn't with my current husband then I would just leave. Even if I didn't go back to my ex, I would end it with my husband because it's not for him or me.
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Post by ginayang on Nov 4, 2012 2:26:26 GMT -5
Between the two, I would choose the man with a bright future who cares about me. First of all, the other guy broke my heart once. There is no guarantee that he won't break my heart a second time. For a relationship, I think honesty, commitment, and trust are the most important aspects. He doesn't have any of those key characteristics. Second, the other guy may make you feel loved, but after 10 or more years of marriage, "the feeling of love" isn't going to remain anymore. As I said before, honesty, commitment, and trust are the crucial aspects. That is what will make a marriage or a relationship last for a long time. Plus, just because I like this guy now, it doesn't mean I won't ever love the man with the good career.
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Post by edward08 on Nov 4, 2012 9:12:29 GMT -5
i would choose the guy with a bright future and cares about, because long term would be better that a short term and your live would probably be dedicated to that person forever, love is not permanent and it only last a few, care would last longer in my opinion
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